Tuesday, August 25, 2009

I Survived!

Okay, I survived the first day of school. Today is a new day. And I feel better. Clay also survived his first day of school. I am excited for him, he has so much ahead of him......we all have so much ahead of us...that has to be the focus! What are we going to do with our future? What can we do to make our mark? To make the world a better place, to enjoy life, to embrace our gifts ( and we do have them). Much to ponder, I'll get back to you.

Monday, August 24, 2009

MONDAY'S..........

Today is Monday. Remember that old saying "today is the first day of the rest of your life?" It's true, when you think about it, everyday is. But today really feels like that. It's the first day of school for Clay...college. So he's not here at home, he is off in his dorm room. I didn't get to make him a special breakfast this morning, or help him get his new school supplies loaded up in his new backpack......or take his picture, walk him to his new class or drop him off at his new school, or kiss him good bye.......he's on his own. And I am on my own this morning, sitting here with my cup of coffee feeling lost. Most of you know, my daughter got married this summer, she is not here either.......My wonderful husband is here (still in bed :)), but it's not the same...not for a mom. So, there you go, it IS the first day of the rest of my life! I can choose to wallow in self-pity, or I can get going and make it a great day......I will probably wallow for awhile, but I will move forward! No more excuses........I should now have a little extra time for myself. Maybe I'll get fit and lose that 20 lbs. I've been blaming on child bearing for 20 years, or maybe I'll go back to school, or maybe write a book! I'll start with getting up and taking a shower.....one step at a time.

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Welcome to the San Diego Breast Cancer 3-Day:

Welcome to the San Diego Breast Cancer 3-Day:

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"Political Correctness"

Okay, I looked up the meaning of this "politically correct" thing. I found several definitions, but kind of liked this one the best:
A trend that wants to make everything fair, equal and just to all by suppressing thought, speech, and practice in order to achieve that goal.
Kind of scary when you really think about it. I'm okay with not wanting to offend any one person, group, religion, political party, etc. But suppressing thought, speech and practices, NO WAY! This is America, and we have freedom of speech! Forget Political Correctness! Be kind and thoughtful, but never be afraid to express your views, thoughts and beliefs. Be true to yourself, exercise your rights, and never compromise who you are!

White Trash/Red Neck Potluck!

Well, the party was another success! My neighbor and I threw our 2ND white trash party last night. Very fun! I know it sounds politically incorrect, but please don't be offended! It is all in fun. If you have issues, back off......I lived in a trailer for 3 years when I was young. No big deal!
Any way.....great costumes! Lot's of tattoo's, camo, mullets, and "pregnant" gals running around! If you have not been to a White trash themed party, throw one! It's worth it just to see the costumes people come up with. Very creative, and everyone gets into it, its amazing. I think there is a little red neck in all of us! And the food.......bologna sandwiches, spam, casseroles, franks and beans......
PS-what is political correctness? I think I will investigate this term...more later.

Friday, August 21, 2009

I Love My Girls!

Greetings Groovey Chicks!
Today is my birthday! I refuse to reveal my age.........let's just say over 50, yuk! Spent most of the day with my niece, Kaycee. She is awesome. A 30 something mom who I love to hang out with. I am so lucky that (even though I have awesome friends) I love to hang out with my family! What a blessing. I have a group of the most awesome niece's! I feel like they are all daughters and good friends. Not to mention my awesome daughter, who I would rather hang out with more than anyone on this planet! Oh, and I can't leave out my groovey sis! Anyway, as I ponder this special day, I am reminded of how blessed I am. I lost my mother when I was only 11. And I think God looked down on me and said, okay, I am now going to give you one of the best group of girls I can find and put them in your family! Sister, sister-in-laws, daughter, nieces, mother-in-law, etc. So enjoy! And I do! I wouldn't trade any of them! Some of them I don't see enough, but we pick up right where we left off every time we get together. So to all my groovey girls, I LOVE YA!!! Thank you for loving me, supporting me, and making my life better. :) You Rock!

Monday, August 17, 2009

Okay, so I said I was back........that was July 4th! It is August 17th!
Where does time go? I have had a HUGE summer......Chelsea got married! Clay is going to college......I will be an empty-nester......Lord help Mike!
Life is good (I think). I need to now get a life! Any suggestions will be appreciated. I am open, what does a middle aged groovy girl do with herself?
One who has been a mom and housewife for the past 23 years? I need a job! One that is flexible, and has meaning, is creative, and has serious cash flow, haha! Don't we all need this job?